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Hi Reader

Yesterday, I looked at my email list and saw 92 people who were subscribed, but hadn't opened or engaged with a single email in the last 90 days. And it made me think about something bigger. How often we hold onto things (and people) that look good on paper but don't feel real anymore.

I had a choice. Keep them to boost my numbers, or remove them because I'm serious about building something real.

I deleted them.

Because I'm not about numbers. I'm all about bringing realness to life.

In my book "She'll Do It Her Way," I talk about precious people - the ones who nourish your soul, not just fill your feed with 'stuff.'

And I want this community to be soul-deep.

Not me adding to the noise in your inbox that you scroll past. There’s enough of that already, especially on social media.

This is different. This is Hide & Seek Work in email form. Soul-nudges that help you awaken to what you've been hiding, recognise the whispers you've been ignoring, and remember who you really are.

But that only works if you slow down and go within.

STOP.

Not just scroll.

So here's my Soulful Challenge to you:

When you get my emails, are you stopping ...or scrolling?

What made you sign up?

What are you looking for here?

What's landed for you so far?

Talk to me.

If you're reading this and thinking "I want to engage but I'm not sure what to say" ...just say that. Let me know you're here. That's enough.

Keep shining softly

Andrea - Your 'Soulful Challenger'

PS: My Dad used to say, "It's either important, or it's not. You choose." So here's your choice: engage, or keep scrolling. But know that I'm building this for the ones who choose to show up real.

Andrea Goodridge

💛I switch the light on inside, so the 'real you' can shine softly from within. For over 20 years I've helped people shed the layers that aren't theirs, the job titles, the roles, the expectations, and remember who they actually are underneath. If something in you is done hiding, you're in the right place.

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